Coach Cole Zesiger

The 30-Day
No Contact Challenge

A structured daily challenge that builds real momentum — with tools that track your streak, log your wins, and show you the data on your healing. Days 1–7 are free.

Start Day 1 — Free → Browse All Tools ↓
30
Days
4
Connected Tools
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New Chapter
🚨 About to break no contact? — Use the Panic Button first. It takes 90 seconds.

The Challenge is the thread that ties everything together. Each day gives you a task, connects to your tools, and builds the evidence that you're stronger than the urge to go back. Use the free tools anytime. The Challenge gives them structure.

Right now
What do you need?
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I'm about to break NC
90 seconds before you do anything. Breathe first.
Something just hit me
90-second protocol: name it, ground, reframe, move.
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Should I reach out?
7-question checklist. Clear verdict in 2 minutes.
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Log today's streak
Mark today as kept. Watch the number climb.
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The Book Behind the Tools

Ex's & No's

The breakup advice you don't want to hear — but need to. Every tool in this suite is built from its frameworks.

Get the Book →
Free — No Signup Required
The Survival Kit

Four free tools for the hardest days. Use them anytime — but they're even more powerful inside the 30-Day Challenge. No login. Your data stays on your device.

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Free Ch. 3 & 7
Attachment Style Quiz
Discover the invisible pattern driving your relationships.
15 scenario-based questions that identify whether you're anxious, avoidant, or secure — with personalized next steps for your exact pattern and a breakdown of how it showed up in your relationship.
15 Questions Score Breakdown Action Steps Saves Result
Take the Quiz
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Free Ch. 2
No Contact Tracker
Track your streak. Identify your triggers. Keep going.
A daily check-in system with streak tracking, 10 preset triggers to log what nearly broke you, milestone messages at every stage, and a compassionate reset if you slip.
Daily Check-in Streak Counter Trigger Log Milestone Messages
Start Streak
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Free
Should I Reach Out?
The 7-question checklist before you send anything.
A step-by-step decision tree that runs you through the same process used with coaching clients. Gets a clear answer: Do Not Send, Not Yet, or Proceed with Caution — with specific reasoning and next steps.
7 Questions Branching Logic Clear Verdict Action Plan
Run the Checklist
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Free Emergency
The Panic Button
90 seconds before you do something you'll regret.
An emergency intervention for the moment you're about to break no contact. Breathing reset, three honest questions, and a reality check — all before you pick up the phone. Save it to your home screen.
Breathing Reset Reality Check Always Free No Gate
Open the Panic Button
How It Works
One Path. Real Progress.
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Start the Challenge
The 30-Day Challenge gives you one task per day. It connects to the tools below — your streak, your wins, your life scores. Days 1–7 are free. No account needed.
2
Use the Survival Kit
The NC Tracker, Panic Button, Reach Out checklist, and Attachment Quiz are free. The Challenge tells you when to use each one — or use them anytime on your own.
3
Unlock the Rebuild
On Day 8 the Rebuild Kit opens. Life Map, Small Wins, Thinking Errors Journal, and 7 more tools for months 2–6. One payment. Yours permanently. $27.
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Watch the Data Shift
Your streak grows. Your Life Map scores climb. Your small wins stack up. The connected stats bar inside the Challenge shows you the evidence of healing — in real numbers.

Tools Are a Start.
Coaching Is the Work.

These tools do the best they can at 2am when you're spiraling. But the real pattern-breaking happens in the room — with a plan, accountability, and someone who's been through it.

Book a Call with Cole
1-on-1 Coaching · Starting at $3,800
The Full System
More Ways to Work
With Cole

The toolkit is where most people start. Here's where it goes.

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Step 1
The Book

Ex's & No's — the full framework behind every tool. Read this first.

Get the Book →
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Step 2
The Toolkit

12 interactive tools for the rebuild phase. One-time $27. Yours permanently.

Get the Rebuild Kit — $27 →
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Step 3
1:1 Coaching

Work directly with Cole or his coaches. Personalized plan, accountability, real results.

Book a Call →
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Free Content
YouTube

Deep dives on attachment theory, no contact, moving on, and rebuilding. New videos weekly.

Watch on YouTube →
Hub Streak 🚨 Panic 💬 Reach Out? 🧠 Quiz