Everything you need to heal in one place

The
Healing
Toolkit

A complete suite of interactive tools built on the same frameworks Cole uses with private coaching clients — for $27.

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2,000+
Clients Coached
9
Interactive Tools
$27
One-Time Price

What's inside

Every Tool You Need
To Heal & Rebuild

These aren't generic journal prompts. Each tool was built around the exact frameworks Cole uses with private coaching clients.

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Life Map Tracker
Track 8 life dimensions over time with charts and trend lines. Set a baseline, log weekly entries, and watch your score climb as you do the work. Your most important long-term tool.
Core Tool
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Relationship Autopsy
A structured deep-dive into what actually happened. Walk through the full arc of your relationship — what worked, what broke, what you each contributed. No blame, just clarity.
Core Tool
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Daily Healing Journal
Guided daily prompts built around attachment theory. Not a blank page — structured questions that move you through grief, self-awareness, and forward momentum.
Book Companion
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Future Vision Builder
Most people are running away from pain. This tool builds something to run toward — a concrete, emotionally real picture of your life 12 months from now.
Core Tool
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Self Worth Audit
Heartbreak tanks self-worth. This audit shows you exactly where it dropped, why, and gives you a real plan to rebuild it — not just positive affirmations.
Core Tool
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Small Wins Tracker
Recovery is invisible until it isn't. Log your wins — big and small — and build the evidence that you're actually moving forward, even when it doesn't feel like it.
Progress Tool
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Thinking Errors Journal
Catastrophizing, mind-reading, all-or-nothing thinking — heartbreak makes cognitive distortions worse. This tool catches them, names them, and rewires the pattern.
Book Companion
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Unsent Letter Builder
Say everything you can't say. A guided process to write what you need to express — for closure, for processing, or just to get it out. You never have to send it.
Processing Tool
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Values Clarity Exercise
Most people lose themselves in relationships. This exercise reconnects you with who you actually are, what you genuinely want, and the standards you'll hold going forward.
Core Tool

Plus free tools included: Attachment Style Quiz · No Contact Tracker · Should I Reach Out? · Panic Button

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How it works

Simple. Instant. Yours.

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Buy for $27
Secure checkout through Stripe. One payment, no subscription, no upsells.
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Get Your Access Code
Your unique code is delivered instantly. Enter it once to unlock all tools.
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Use Everything
All 9 tools unlock immediately. Use them on any device, anytime, forever.

Real Results

Don't Take My Word For It

These are real clients who did the work.

★★★★★

"I learned so much about relationship psychology, especially attachment styles and how they show up in a breakup. I was able to reclaim my self-confidence and my self-esteem. I know I will show up very differently in my next relationship."

— Alyssa L. · Google Review
★★★★★

"He gave me a blueprint — not only to attract my ex back if I still wanted him, but a path to being the very best version of myself. After months of trying to 'heal' and 'move on,' actually having a plan to move forward was just what I needed."

— Christian J. & Katie S. · Google Reviews
★★★★★

"My ex didn't come back — now I am with someone else and I am engaged. You were simply right."

— Anonymous · Instagram DM
★★★★★

"I felt heard and understood in a way that brought a sense of relief and hope. Cole didn't shy away from being brutally honest, yet he delivered his insights with empathy. I walked away grateful for his honesty and guidance."

— Lisa C. · Google Review
★★★★★

"I was completely broken, but I feel like I'm already so much better. I can see a few lights. Every night I find peace."

— Anonymous · Instagram DM
★★★★★

"He allowed me to see it from a perspective I never would have on my own. He explained it in a way that was very clarifying — I felt peace about my situation."

— Rebeka D. · Google Review

Goes Deeper with the Book

Ex's & No's
by Cole Zesiger

The toolkit is built on the frameworks from Cole's book — the same attachment theory applications, pattern-break models, and decision frameworks explained in full depth.

If you want to understand why you do what you do in relationships — not just what to do next — the book is the companion to everything in the toolkit.

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Ex's and No's by Cole Zesiger

The framework behind every tool

Common Questions

FAQ

How do I get access after I buy? ▾
Right after checkout, you'll receive an email with your access code. Go to the toolkit page, enter the code once, and all 9 tools unlock permanently in your browser. You never need to log in.
Do I need an account or subscription? ▾
No account, no subscription. It's a one-time $27 payment. Your access code works on any device and the tools save your progress locally in your browser.
I'm not trying to get my ex back — is this still for me? ▾
Absolutely. Most of the tools are about understanding yourself — your patterns, your attachment style, your values. That work applies whether you want reconciliation or a fresh start. The Reconnection Planner is the only tool specifically for getting an ex back.
What's the difference between this and working with Cole directly? ▾
The toolkit gives you the frameworks. Working with Cole or his coaches means live accountability, personalized feedback, and someone in your corner every week. The toolkit is the best place to start — if you want more, coaching is the next step.
Is there a refund policy? ▾
Because the toolkit unlocks digital content instantly, all sales are final. If you have any issues accessing the tools, reach out and we'll make it right.
Will my data be saved? ▾
Yes — your progress saves automatically in your browser and will be there when you come back on the same device. To use the tools across multiple devices (phone + laptop, for example), use the Export Backup button fixed at the bottom of each tool. It downloads a .json file with all your data. Then hit Import Backup on any other device to restore everything instantly. Keep the file in iCloud Drive or Google Drive and you'll never lose your progress.

The investment in yourself

Stop Guessing.
Start Healing.

9 professional-grade tools. Built on real coaching frameworks. Less than dinner for two.

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